FINALLY ABLE TO ACCESS THIS ACCOUNT

 So many years ago i started this blog. I lost all of my log in info and access to the email linked to it. I have just now finally recovered everything! 

NEW PROFILE

I HAVE RECENTLY CREATED A NEW PROFILE ON SD.COM .. AT THIS TIME IM NOT PAYING THEM TO SEND OR RECEIVE MESSAGES.. I CREATED IT SO I CAN CHECK ON THE MEMBERS WHO ARE LISTED ON THIS BLOG.. TO SEE IF THEY ARE STILL ACTIVE AND ANY NAME CHANGES THEY HAVE DONE...
I AM WORKING ON THE ONES I HAVE HAD INQUIRES ABOUT FIRST, AND THEN WILL WORK MY WAY DOWN THE LIST.. I HAVE ALREADY SEEN A DOZEN JUST DOING A QUICK GLANCE....LOL..
KEEP THE UPDATES COMING LADIES..
MELISSA

POSTING

ONCE AGAIN I REMIND YOU TO PLEASE KEEP YOUR POST TO THE EXPERIENCES YOU HAVE HAD WITH AN INDIVIDUAL, NO COMMENTING ON ALLEGED ILLEGAL ACTIVITY, NO POSTING ANYONES HOME ADDRESS, CHILDRENS NAMES, SS#, BANK ACCOUNT INFO, ETC..
THE OPINIONS AND COMMENTS POSTED ARE NOT OF MY OPINIONS OR KNOWLEDGE AND ARE USED STRICTLY FOR SHARING PURPOSES WITH OTHER VISITORS TO THE BLOG, I WILL NOT EDIT OR DELETE A POST OR COMMENT BASED ON MY PERSONAL FEELINGS OR AT THE REQUEST OF ANYONE BEING "OUT-ED" SIMPLY BECAUSE THEY DONT WANT THEIR INFO  LISTED.
I WELCOME ANYONE TO POST AS LONG AS THEY RESPECT THE GUIDELINES I HAVE SET,  MEN ARENT THE ONLY ONES THAT BEHAVE BADLY ON THESE SITES..
I WELCOME AND ENCOURAGE POSITIVE POST AS WELL...
JUST REMEMBER TO BE RESPECTFUL OF OTHERS AND YOURSELVES.. IF YOU DONT LIKE OR DISAGREE WITH SOMETHING YOU READ, THEN BY ALL MEANS PLEASE POST A REBUTTAL TELLING YOUR SIDE...
THANKS FOR ALL WHO CONTRIBUTE AND WHO EMAIL ME DIRECTLY..
MELISSA
 

THANK YOU FOR POSTING!!

ITS BEEN A WHILE SINCE I HAVE UPDATED THE INTRO.. MUCH GOING ON IN MELISSAS WORLD AND IF THERE WAS AN ADDITIONAL 5 HOURS TO EACH DAY I WOULD STILL NEED A FEW MORE.. LOL...
THANK YOU ALL FOR YOUR COMMENTS, WARNINGS AND INFO... PLEASE FEEL FREE TO ALSO POST POSITIVE COMMENTS ON ANY MEMBER OF SD.COM OR ANY OTHER DATING AND SOCIAL SITES YOU ARE MEMBERS OF...

PLEASE REMEMBER THAT IF YOU ARE ACCUSING SOMEONE OF ILLEGAL OR CRIMINAL ACTIVITY I HAVE TO EDIT THE POST OR DELETE IT..... IF YOU ARE COMMENTING ON DATING EXPERIENCES I DONT EDIT THOSE.. PLEASE POST TO YOUR HEARTS CONTENT...  I RECEIVE EMAILS WEEKLY FROM AUTHORS AND WRITERS ASKING TO USE COMMENTS FROM THE BLOG IN ARTICLES AND BOOKS.. IF YOU WOULD LIKE TO CONTRIBUTE IN THE FUTURE PLEASE EMAIL ME YOUR INFO AND I WILL PASS IT ALONG WHEN I RECEIVE A REQUEST... EVEN IF YOU WISH TO BE ANONYMOUS YOU CAN CONTRIBUTE WITH YOUR STORIES..

MUCH RESPECT TO EVERYONE WHO IS POSTING!!
MELISSA

SORRY I HAVE BEEN INACTIVE

I HAVE HAD LOTS OF REAL LIFE STUFF GOING ON AND HAVENT BEEN ABLE TO GET ON HERE IN FOREVER.. I AM STILL INTERESTED IN ANY STORIES AND EMAILS THAT YOU HAVE TO SHARE..
I HAVE BEEN WORKING WITH SEVERAL AUTHORS AND HAVE CONTRIBUTED TO MANY STORIES THAT HAVE BEEN WRITTEN ABOUT SUGARDADDIE.COM AS WELL AS OTHER SITES THAT HAVE SIMILAR EXPERIENCES..

time to get this moving forward

I have had several things that have prevented me from getting this list mailed to the assholes on it.. but i am making an effort to work on getting everyone emailed as soon as possible..
Keep contributing names as well as email addresses and i will put them on the list..

HAPPY HOLIDAYS

Am thinking about playing 'secret santa" and exposing all of these assholes dirty little secrets.. LOL
what a way to start the new year...
making the resolution that these POSER-daddies get outted...
Thinking i might also send a copy of the list to sugardaddie.com.. hell i havent paid for a membership so they cant delete me off..... AGAIN!!!...lmao

INTERESTING

here is a website i found with reviews for sugardaddie.com

http://www.datingsitesreviews.com/rating/review.php?rt_id=Sugardaddie.com&mode=view

Email addresses

Remember ladies, try to include email addresses of these "men" (haha)... I want to send out a mass email to all of them so they can see their names on the list as well as all the others seeing who is also on it... real names are also a good thing..

More names

Anonymous said...
KESTRAL72 : HARASSES ME EVERYDAY WITH HOTLISTING ME, WONT WRITE OR READ MAIL.MADE A COMPLAINT TO S/D SITE, HE IS STILL HERE, STILL HAS ME ON HIS HOTLIST, IF IT WAS A WOMAN DOING IT,I WOULD HAVEBEEN KICKED OFF!
OYSTER46: VERY RUDE AND VULGAR
HONEYDRAGON: JUST WANTS NUDE PICSMQ0527: WANTS YOU TO BE HIS SEX SLAVE AND DEGRADE HIM.
GOODTIMESOO1: STOOD ME UP , WHEN I CALLED HIS HOTEL ROOM HE HAD ANOTHER GIRL WITH HIM, TOTAL DOG AND IS MARRIED !
WITHDADDYUSAYO:HEY REAL WINNER HEREHAS ISSUES WITH BLACK WOMAN CONTACTING HIM , HE HATES IT ! VERY PREDJ RUDE STUCK UP FAT CHEAP WANNABEE MAN.
NJDAD4YOU:NASTY ,PERV, RUDE,VULGAR, WANTS TO JERK OFF ON YOUR FACE ! HOME EMAIL:TEDESCDAVE@AOL.COM
WT28: STUCK UP, RUDE S.O.B !HOME EMAIL:WT287@YAHOO.COM
VELVETGLOVE55: PLAYER, GAMES, LIAR, PHONEY, BS'er

UPDATE!!

I have been informed by one of my "girls" that Stevenamor9 has closed that profile and opened one under the name of ....... velvetglove55 ............... and a new profile got a new age, he is now only 44 .... if that really works i am changing my profile until i am 29..lol..
and boy does he have the girls talking... check out all of the comments -I copied and pasted all of them to this post from the original post titled "name change"
here is the original post:
Stevenamor9 ...... Real name is Steven, from the San Diego area..He is a Flake, Liar, PLAYER, dont believe the claims "im looking for a LTR relationship".. claims to have just broken up with a GF .....but dont worry the GF isnt gone for long, as soon as he "hangs out" with you, she returns.. his "dear sweetie" letter tells you how she is causing him grief and he needs to sort thru that issue.. Maybe he is sending her out on the shoe buying trips he has promised you to get her out of the way for his little "flings".. Beware ladies... this one will play with your emotions... and the only boots you will receive are the ones that are kicking you to the curb..

MORE OFFENDERS, thanks to all who contributed

LQQKEN : ONLY TALKS ON PHONE
KESTRAL72: IN LUV /SELF NEVER WRITES JUST HOTLIST
NJDAD4YOU: BIG NASTY PERV, WANTS ANAL AND WANTS YOU TO HAVE SPERM FACIALS, VERY RUDE.
PT851: OLD MAN, CALLS YOU NAMES, HAS A GUNT AND SMALL PENIS
PERSPICUTY : RUDE, MARRIED,
DINGRAM: MAKES DATES, THEN CANCELLES LAST MIN DUE TO FAMILY EMERG. BUT IS ONLINE RIGHT AFTER HE STANDS YOU UP. (DINGRAM1@GMAIL.COM
BESTGAS: CHEAP, RUDE, (BESTGASMAN@AOL.COM
K24: WILL ONLY TALK BY PHONE
CHUCK3POINT: REPEAT HOTLISTER, WONT READ MAIL OR WRITE
COUNTERFLEET: GODS GIFT TO WOMAN
SHORESUPERMAN: HAS GIRLFRIEND, DOG,
GRRRTGUY4U: TOTAL LOSER,
SEGUY: SNOTTY, RUDE, STUCK UP, CHEAP
MANHATTANTIVE : ONLY WANTS NUDE PIC'S OF A NAUGHTY GIRL,KINKY, SMOKES WEED, (MTS1NYC@ATT.NET
LUVLATINO2: HAS A MILLION KIDS, PERV
CLASSINSESSION:WANTS YOU TO GIVE HIM GOLDEN SHOWER,
JMREAL: MARRIED, CHEATER, RUDE
FREILING2001: PERV. WANTS YOU T GIVE HIM ANAL WITH YOUR HAND
GOODTIMES: WEED HEAD, TOTAL B.S.ER
VEGASGUY08: MR BIG SHOT, FULL OF HIMSELF, COCKY, RUDE, ABUSIVE
(ORO808@AOLCOM)
BADBOY515S: CHEAP
YOUNGATHEART: MARRIED, HAS PREGNANT GIRLFRIEND,
(BLAKEY2002@YAHOO.COM
WT287: COCKY, SELF CENTERED SOB
ITALIANXOXO: COCKY, RUDE, TALKS ALOT OF B.S
(INMYPASTLIFE@HOTMAIL.COM
MAINMAN12: NO CLASS, NEVER ONCE OFFERED TO TAKE ME OUT TO DINNER, BUT DID ORDER DOMINO'S AND WATER.
LEGMAN69: TOTAL PIG !
CTSUGDAD: ALWAYS SAYS INTERESTED, WILL NEVER MAKE A DATE, MARRIED
INSGUYKY: SHORT, FAT, LIL PENIS, MARRIED, RUDE
(INSUYKY@YAHOO.COM)
PPDOC: NASTY NO CLASS DOCTOR, VERY VERB. ABUSIVE,PERV
NYCALPHAMAN: CLAIMS TO HAVE ANY HOOKER IN NYC FOR UNDER 500.00
ASIANDOCTOR: I SAID HI TO HIM, HE SAID I WAS DISGUSTING LOOKING
HOCKEY: NASTY,BAD BREATH, FARTS, CHEAP
ARTISTPAUL: ONLY WANTS NUDE PICS FOR HIS ENJOYMENT
SANFRANGENT: PHONE ONLY,CHEAP
PLEASINPASSION: HOTLIST YOU OVER AND OVER, NEVER WRITE
SIDEWINDERSTORM: HOTLIST YOU OVER AND OVER, NEVER WRITE
BILLFORYOU: MARRIED, LIAR,
ROCGEORGE: NASTY , RUDE, WILL DEGRADE YOU IF YOU HAVE TATTOO

Name Change

I have been informed by one of my "girls" that Stevenamor9 has closed that profile and opened one under the name of ....... velvetglove55 ...............
ALSO...
EXEC4FUN: BIG TALKER, THINKS HES SMOOTH, SETS UP DATES AND STANDS YOU UP , HOME EMAIL .... OLDERANDGENEROUS@AOL.COM .... CELL #:571-230-8739

keep the info and updates coming ladies...
I also have a long list to add as soon as i find a free moment to organize it

Robert's back

hamptonsman327 is his new name.... Like the proverbial "bad penny" he has resurfaced yet again...
Am getting together more names to add so be patient, should have done this week... and they are a plenty..LOL

More names

Well girls, another "offender"
name is "USEFUL" allegedly is name is Ian Canfeld and his email address is usefultoyouprincess@yahoo.com i am working on getting a phone number for him as well..
Add him to your list of liars and frauds, as well as possibley being a BROKE ass who stands girls up once he makes a date..

Stevenamor9 ...... Real name is Steven, from the San Diego area..He is a Flake, Liar, PLAYER, dont believe the claims "im looking for a relationship and thats when im most happy".. claims to have just broken up with a GF .....but dont worry the GF isnt gone for long, as soon as he "hangs out" with you, she returns.. his "dear sweetie" letter tells you how she is causing him grief and he needs to sort thru that issue.. Maybe he is sending her out on the shoe buying trips he has promised you to get her out of the way for his little "flings".. Beware ladies... this one will play with your emotions... and the only boots you will receive are the ones that are kicking you to the curb..

UPDATES

HI, havent been on in a while... but it is that time again... no not talking about the Holiday season or even Election time.. am talking about UPDATE TIME.. YEAH!!! the time when all the boys get outted for their naughty deeds and crimes against morality and decency. When we share the loathsome deatails of offenders short and tall, big and (ahem) small, rich and poor... So ladies (and gents if you would like to contribute)... A few names to add to your list of NOT-SO-sugardaddies...
I think in addition to adding the names to the original list.. i am going to feature them at the top of the blog.. a new format i am gonna try out..so if you have a guy who you belive should be featured, gimme his "rap sheet" and he will be a contender..

HEY ALL

Been a while since i have been on here to update.... have been dealing with some serious medical issues.. Will be adding some more names to the list within the next few days, have several emails to reply to and then will update.

Another vacation HI

I am still on vacation, decided to extend it since i have had such a nice time. going to San Francisco this weekend, and then maybe going down to San Diego mid week. probably wont be home until next weekend.. Keep emailing me your names.. or posting them here.. i will update soon i want to try to get these guys emailed the list in a few weeks... Nice weekend to all!! will check my message on monday..

A vacation HI to all

Hey ALL.. i have been on vacation for a week..  (its Melissa birthday) but will try to check messages and reply to my email tomorrow  (today was first day online so please give me a few days to catch up).. remember.. we want to get email addresses on these guys so i can send them a copy of the list all at once....i know it is tempting, but dont tell them they are on it or send them a copy too soon.. we want them to see each other on it as well as cause a ripple on SD membership cancellations..so they get the message that women are sick and tired of the behavior of this "dirty little boys club"...

i am off to the beach will think of all of you...lol.... i will add the new names as soon as i get back home this weekend..

DELETED AGAIN

i got a very crude message from IslandMan last wednesday.. i sent it to sd as spam.. and they deleted my profile (PrincessPocahontas) while i was out of town this weekend....God Damn It!!!! girl cant even take a break and go on a retreat without having to come back and work on getting yet another profile posted... this is becoming a full time job... lol... i liked being PrincessPocahontas too... maybe she will reincarnate as PP2... but hey sd did send a message that they are refunding my $20...hahahahahahaha.. 

 
and .. i sent another message to DR PHIL..

Posted a message on MSN MESSAGE BOARD

Go here to put a comment about DR PHIL
http://boards.msn.com/TVboards/thread.aspx?threadid=636018&BoardsParam=HIPDelay%3d1%26PostID%3d17355406

this is my message
"I have been emailing Dr Phil about his endorsement of the dating site sugardaddie.com .. There is sexual harassment, degradation, humiliation, solicitation, abuse, fraud, deception and the general disrespect of women going on. When women complain the site removes them and the men are allowed to continue as members. Several women have started blogs to list the ID's, names, phone #'s and email addresses of the "men" committing these vile acts. The list was compiled by over 200 women, and constantly being added to. Dr Phil NEEDS to step up and take a look into this since many women joined based on his recommendation. check out mlissab.blogspot.com/ for the list and the whole story.
Melissa Dowell"

Letter to Oprah

I have written several times about issues and crimes against women that are occuring on the site sugardaddie.com. I have been in contact with numerous women who have started blogs to share info. This is not just a few random incidences.There is a system wide problem going on. Please look at the info that has been posted, and explore the links that i have added as well. http://mlissab.blogspot.com/Women are BEGGING to be heard and for this degradation, sexual harassment and various forms of abuse to be stopped. Again I implore you Oprah, please bring these problems out to the public. The power of your voice can speak for many.

new letter to Dr Phil

I wrote another letter to Phil today... here it is.................................
I have written several times about issues and crimes against women that are occuring on the site sugardaddie.com. I have been in contact with numerous women who have started blogs to share info. This is not just a few random incidences.There is a system wide problem going on. Please look at the info that has been posted, and explore the links that i have added as well. http://mlissab.blogspot.com/Women are BEGGING to be heard and for this degradation, sexual harassment and various forms of abuse to be stopped. Again I implore you Dr Phil, step up as quickly to bring these problems out to the public as you did to endorse this company.

REVIEW

here is a web site address that you can post a review about sugardaddie.com
http://www.rankdates.com/add_review.php?catid=4&item=50629

this was my review..
sugardaddie.com is full of sexual deviants and harassers,perverts, game players, married men who are liars, and men who have general bad manners towards women.if you want the real scoop go to http://mlissab.blogspot.com/

email addresses

I would like to get email addresses of these guys.. so that off of the SD site i can send them a copy of the list.. that way they know they have been busted.. let them all pull their membership.. maybe that will cause sugardaddie.com to take notice and stop protecting these "men". I would like to do it as a mass email with multiple names cc'd so that they know other guys are also seeing them on the list.. it also will be useful to ID them..mass mailing will be effective to cause more than a trickle effect on sugardaddie. ..should they all start pulling their profiles
Since sd is monitoring how many messages are sent out, they would just delete a profile and all the out going messages would be deleted as well.. but i will send them all from my private email.. if they turn me in I am not a member .. (under mlissab anyway...PrincessPocahontas is a good girl and flies under the radar...lol).. if you get any lewd or obsene message copy and paste them in a comment or to my email.. and i will put them on here too.. that way the guy the attention he obviously is looking for.. LOL

one of the "SD men"

has anyone else received this message from GulfGent??.. how sexually harassing is this..lol.. and he includes his phone number in the first contact, how desperate..
"Well you sound like a total sweetheart! I am located 45 miles south of Houston on Galveston Island. I do love the adventurous sides of life. So tell me does the thought of a very well hung, sexually direct, gentleman bring out your hungry side? Steve #409 939-4270"

UPDATED LIST

drjohn2000, (has a script about female domination, wants to you spray some drug in his mouth, wacko)
wdg99 (sexual problems, demands sex when visiting him, if you refuse dumps you off Phx slum hotel wont produce return airline ticket .
HAMPTONSMAN64(liar, weird perv,wants you to listen to him J/O), ON MOST LISTS. real name is Robert
ATTENTION LADIES hamptonsman64 changed his name to
HAMPTONSGUY-1
NYATTORNEY4U (wants you to play the role of his "MOTHER" ..has a script for you, Married, Lies) ... ON MANY LIST
GOLDMOONY (vulgar,nasty vile,wants you to listen to him JO, annoying) ON MANY LIST name is Paul goldmoony@aol.com 217-855-2220
REALDEALNYC (liar, WEIRD, wild player, older than claims, wont pay for anything, asshole,.) ON MANY LIST - real name is Steve
SPORTSDOC( liar, married, looking for sex slave, someone to listen to him JO on phone) ON MANY LIST real name is Anthony, yahoo IM is cathman
ANTONIO66 (perv, wants to talk about size your labia his penis, verbally abusive, wants phone sex,) ON MANY LIST
RomanticNYGuy (threatening, verbally abusive, married, creepy, after first intro email he sends cont emails beggin to spank & tie u up & chain u. bugs u for pics, says he is broke) ON MANY LIST stueeynj@aol.com real name is Stu
SEXYBANDITO (liar, flake, self-righteous,pretentious, cant commit, )
nosaintshere (only wants to talk sex, wants naughty pics, comes on strong, says he wants a relationship w/u until you dont give him what he wants) real name is Charlie nosaintshere@msn.com 403-509-4920
Jrvnet,(man whore), real name is John
Jefflovestotan (wild, he is dirty,pics are deceptive older/fatter, rude, liar, wants to bring a friend )
GulfGent (obsessed w/ his penis, wants dirty talk, very vulgar) name is Steve 409 939-4270
bigdigi (harasses, sends pics of his nasty ass very first email, 1st msg wants phone #.. sends 5-10 messages at a times all same) Evan Sandler, 212-682-6198 & 917-328-3712 esandler1@nyc.rr.com
Naughtydaddie (married, wants sex for $$, very little money, liar) Seekingstunner (married, verbal abusive),
jimmerz (liar, creepy), ,
paz5559 (insulting),
aliefs41( weird, looking for daughter replacement,mass msgs,)
bmwm5nyc (PradaBoy) (needy, annoying, wants # sex), David 516-448-0732
greatguy2000 (wants sex in car-offers gas $ but not much)
showme740 (liar,married),
someoneunique (wont actually meet,games) real name is Brian
jimsacowboy (gameplayer)
Kcguy4younglady (Insulting, rude, verbally abusive),
Dfwfashionguy (wants dirty talk, married, wont commit to meet, liar)
arnster (wants nude pics,perv),
mrbig99 (liar, married fake pic),
lifeisgoodlivit(liar),
maverick1(fake,liar), real name is Anthony
spoilurottenaz, (creepy)
Mandingo7727 (creepy,pics deceptive, overweight) ,
deportivomario,(secretive, creepy)
jay2sexynsweet (sexually crude)
Zahir2008 (pushy from start),
nycboytoy, (deceptive, crude)
classinsession (liar, creepy) ,
ivan1067 (sexually crude),
Mastermotts,(annoying, liar, mass messages, multiple ID's),
sxydoc4fem,
bryantmeyers (scary, perv),
ALPHAnREAL (creepy, kinky)
Adorableguy72 (needy),
Italianhotboy (needy, liar, secretive) Chris
Primeinct, (crude)
thetalented1(weird,rude)
GiancarloB (married,lies),
Sexualis (lies about location, older than profile, weird)
Loupru (agrees to meet, stands u up)
pragmaticsal (crazy,liar,cheap, insulting),
mikeyd75205 (dirty talk, wants to JO on phone)
Jojo4040 (womanizer, liar, cheater)
Kirk596 (liar, married, broke),
NycEnNasty (liar, fraud, married)
Skyelmo (liar, player, says he is out of town when not)
Italiankingnyc (very needy, liar)
scooby-doo (insulting)
Daddygemini (Deceptive, liar, older than says)
Amore-Giovanni(possessive, nasty, married)
1gr8guy (admitted to cheating on his wife.),
Darby (overall asshole.),
Wallstreeternyc (states his income is high, cheap)
Cody40, (gambling addict, broke, liar, anger issues),
diesel809 (sexually crude), ,
Horse123 ( insulting, cheap,lot of time on phone, never meets, looking for dumb/young). ,
Adventure07, (constant emails, never meets)
bigdave1 (big time waster, never meets),
sl500 (emails and never shows up)
rocksbenz (nosy, cheap, insulting),
laserman (smut talk)
Realestexc (married, cheap),
NaplesCPA (creepy, liar, claims to need kidney)
HandsomeNY (Big time Player, confuses who he is talking too) Michael
Cadillacjack- (married, won't commit),
The Company- (pervert, online player),
Jetpilot275- (very needy, wants serious LTR right away)
Eroupe53211 - (player, won't commit to meeting, online flirt),
Attorney325- WEIRD, frugal, small penis, pervert !
bornlucky2007 (likes to talk)
ricknearboston (liar)
withdaddyusayo (not real age,strange in so many ways! )
bigdigi (Harasses you, will block you if you dont give him ur #, creepy)
john2008 (liar, all talk )
royalwulff (liar, scammer, stands u up, BS'er) GENEROUSGENT@JUNO.COM
jetman954 (liar)
IslandTimeMon (sexually crude in initial msg)
dylanz (liar, player)
nightboy (all talk)
solid123 (married)
hotladyonly
tallgent
chris0812
provoman (strange)
jbird2005 (lies, thinks he's gods gift)
elias50 (lies)
bigblue222 (phony)

ADDED NEW NAMES TO LIST

I have added new names to the list... Keep em coming ... I am going to email everyone (Dr.Phil, Oprah,etc)...round 3 this week

sugar daddy fakes and frauds

sugar daddy fakes and frauds

Being Persistant

Tonight I sent out emails to MSNBC, Today show and Dateline .... ALSO... who ever changed the password on our community profile needs to change it back ASAP!.. this was not cool, She was not created for one persons agenda. I want to make sure that i am not involved in any shit that isnt legit (well as legit as it can be since we are only using the made up girl to gather info on these assholes)

Emailed newspapers

Today I emailed letters to NY Times, SF Chronicle, Dallas News, Miami Herald, Leeza Gibbons, WPIX NY channel 11.. and called the NY Post..
Been a busy day for Melissa.. But for every woman who asked my not to give up and keep persuing this... I am... for us all..

Letter to OPRAH, the 2nd one

I sent a second letter to Ms Oprah.. I am nothing if not persistant..LOL
THE LETTER:
I sent an email a few days ago about the sugardaddie.com website. I have since found a blog dating back to Nov 07, from a woman who had a similar experience as mine. She was deleted from the site for being a "whistle-blower" as well. I have also talked to several more women who have shared stories with me,none of which are good. I have also emailed Dr Phil, since he has endorsed this site. The sexual harassment, degradation and humiliation of women on this sight has to be stopped. Women are being treated like whores and being used as toys for these mens pleasures. Sugardaddie.com is promoting themselves as a premium dating site to meet quality men, all the while doing nothing to banish the guys who are behaving in this manner. Our avenue of protecting ourselves within the system is failing us, when we complain and nothing is done except to remove us from the site. Please step up Oprah, the power of your influence can evoke change.

Lettter to Dr Phil, the 2nd one

I just sent a second letter to Dr Phil, Asking, no i should say pleading with him to bring this problem out into the light. I am attaching a copy of the letter and ask that women send him emails, the only way to evoke change is to be pro-active about change. We cant expect that someone else will do it, if it bothers us that much to talk about it, WE have to be willing to do something about it. We know that the practices that are going on here are wrong, by sitting by and doing nothing we are condoning instead of condemning these actions. It isnt about getting back the money we paid for membership, or about getting revenge on sugardaddie.com for failing to provide what they agreed to provide us, or even to out the "bad boys". It is about standing up and taking charge, deciding that we as women will not allow ourselves to hand over our dignity and self respect. Even if we dont win the fight, we can hold our heads high and be proud that we did something instead of slinking away quietly into a corner, hoping the next person will fight the fight for us.
THE LETTER:
A few days ago I sent a message about the website sugardaddie.com and the dirty little secrets that are going on there. I have since found a blog posted back in Nov 07, from a woman who started a similar type of list as the one that i was circulating. She was also removed from the site as soon as her list was shared. Another women i am in contact started a similar list on sugardaddyforme.com and was removed from that site yesterday. I dont think you fully understand the depth of the deception and fraudulance going on with this sight. There are real crimes going on that are being gotten away with because of the anonymity factor. Women are being sexually harassed, and the offers of prostitution are endless. We are being degraded and humiliated. Our avenue of complaining within the system is failing us, when we complain and nothing is done except to remove us from the site. Dr Phil, please step up and bring this into the light. Women joined this sight based on your endorsement, and we are paying to be treated like sex object, whores, and toys for these mens amusement. Sugardaddie.com is promoting themselves as a premium dating site to meet quality men, all the while doing nothing to banish the guys who are behaving in this manner. You endorsed sugardaddie.com, dont you feel an obligation to the women who trusted you to look into this further? We are asking you to step up Dr. Phil, because your influence is powerful and can create change.

sugardaddie.com COMPLAINT

I just filed a complaint with the BBB in S.E Florida
they said I was the first one!!!
Sugardaddie.com is listed with them as NEW LIFE VENTURES inc. North Miami, Fla
They are only listed as being in business since May 2007 .. which is odd since they list on their website they began 5/06..
They just gave the BBB their contact info in NOV 07...
If you would like to file a complaint the web addy for BBB is www.bbbsoutheastflorida.org
or you can call them at 561-842-1918
If you just complain SD only receives a letter with no response needed, which doesnt go against them.. You have to ask for a resolution from them in order for it to be put on their record.. I requested all $$ i have paid them be refunded based on fraudulant claims. If you dont want your money back you can even just ask for a written apology, anything that requires a response from them will alter their score and be listed.
It only takes a few minutes to file a compaint.. is faster on the web since you might be put on hold via phone.. BUT PLEASE, do something so this treatment of women by sugardaddie.com and these men will cease..

List Of Fake SUGARDADDIE Names!: FAKE SUGARDADDIES!!

List Of Fake SUGARDADDIE Names!: FAKE SUGARDADDIES!!

List Of Fake SUGARDADDIE Names!: A Cont. To The List Of Fake Sugardaddies!

List Of Fake SUGARDADDIE Names!: A Cont. To The List Of Fake Sugardaddies!

sugardaddie.com LIST

I was a member of sugardaddie.com for 5 months. I happened upon the website and decided to join based on the endorsements of Dr Phil, amongst others.
I have corresponded to numerous men via private messages, email, text and phone. After receiving disturbing message from several men on this site, I was curious if other women were having the same experiences as myself. I decided to send out a message to random women to inquire. Within only a few days I had recieved over 100 messages, telling horror stories and including the profile names of men that they had encountered. Some were mail and/or phone contacts but many were real life meetings. I corresponded with these women for several days, and saw the list growing, many men were repeat offenders. I decided to compile all of the names and forward it to women on the site. I asked for a description of the "bad boy behavior" as well, not wanting someone put on "the list" just because he rejected a girl. I forwarded the list to women who asked to be updated as well as sent it to random women, asking for additions or comments about any names already listed. I wanted to remain impartial so i never added anyones name to the list, I did however delete names that couldnt be verified or had no "crimes" listed. The term crimes is not intended to suggest or imply criminal or illigal behavior or actions by anyone listed on "the list". It is a term we used to mean "unacceptable social and moral behavior". I was not violating any rules or policies listed on sugardaddie regarding the transmission of messages or circulation of our list, and never received any messages from sugardaddie calling for me to cease and desist. I had my membership cancelled because I was bringing to light all of the lewd, vulgar, improper actions of these men. Many of whom had been turned in to SD without any reprocussions, and it was the women who were kicked off the site for compaining about the incidents.
I heard from women who had claims of being sexually harassed, deceived, insulted, lied to, verbally abused, offered money for sex, and had threats of retaliation if they didnt perform sex. The circualtion of this list was not intended to "black-ball" anyone, it was merely women sharing opinions, experiences and watching out for each other. I received over 500 responses ranging from "thank you's", to please keep this going".
So that is what I am doing for "the sisterhood"
NOTE: the descriptions next to each man were added by women who had encounters with them, Many women could have listed opinions for several guys. The list is collective and accumulative, and dont neccessarily reflect my opinions.
Amore-Giovanni(possessive, nasty, married) maverick1(fake,liar),
scooby-doo (insulting)
sexybandito (liar, cant commit, flake, self-righteous, emotionally void, games)
Jrvnet,(man whore), Mastermotts,(annoying, liar), paz5559 (insulting),
GulfGent (obsessed with his penis, wants dirty talk)
jimmerz (liar, creepy), , bmwm5nyc (needy, annoying), showme740 (liar,married), someoneunique(games), jimsacowboy (gameplayer) Kcguy4younglady (Insulting, rude, verbally abusive), Dfwfashionguy (wants dirty talk, married, wont commit to meet, liar) arnster (wants nude pics,perv), mrbig99 (liar, married fake pic),
aliefs41( weird, looking for daughter replacement), lifeisgoodlivit(liar), spoilurottenaz, (creepy)
Mandingo7727 (creepy,overweight) , deportivomario,(secretive, creepy) cwpost, jay2sexynsweet(sexuallycrude)
Zahir2008 (pushy from start), Jefflovestotan (wild, he is dirty,wants you to bring a friend too)
hamptonsman64(liar, weird perv,wants you to listen to him J/O), HE's ON MOST GIRLS LISTS.
nycboytoy, , classinsession (liar, creepy) , ivan1067 (sexually crude),
sxydoc4fem, bryantmeyers (scary, perv),
ALPHAnREAL (creepy, kinky)
Adorableguy72 (needy), Italianhotboy (needy, liar, secretive)
Primeinct, greatguy2000 (wants sex in car-offers gas $)
thetalented1(weird,rude) GiancarloB (married,lies), Sexualis (lies about location, older than profile, weird)
RomanticNYGuy (threatening, verbally abusive, married, creepy, after first intro email he sends continued emails beggin to spank & tie u up & chain u. Also says he is broke)., Loupru (agrees to meet, stands u up)
pragmaticsal (crazy,liar,cheap, insulting), mikeyd75205 (dirty talk, wants to JO on phone)
NYattorney4u ( wants you to play the role of his "MOTHER" he even had a name for it... has a script for you, Married, Lies) ... ON MANY LIST
Goldmoony (vulgar,nasty vile,wants you to listen to him JO on phone) ON MANY LIST
Jojo4040 (womanizer, liar, cheater)Kirk596 (liar, married, broke), bigdigi (harasses, 1st msg wants phone #)
Naughtydaddie (married, wants sex for $$, very little money, liar)
Seekingstunner (married, verbal abusive), NycEnNasty (liar, fraud, married)
Skyelmo (liar, player, says he is out of towm when not)Italiankingnyc (very needy, liar)
Realdealnyc (liar, weird, wild player, older than claims, wont pay for drinks, asshole, stay away.) ON MANY LIST
Daddygemini (Deceptive, liar, older than says)
Sportsdoc( liar, married, looking for sex slave, someone to listen to him JO on phone) ON A LOT OF LIST
1gr8guy (admitted to cheating on his wife.), Darby (overall asshole.),Wallstreeternyc (states his income is high, cheap)
Cody40, (gambling addict, broke, liar, anger issues), diesel809 (sexually crude),
,Horse123 ( insulting, cheap,lot of time on phone, never meets, looking for dumb/young). , Adventure07, (constant emails, never meets)
bigdave1 (big time waster, never meets), sl500 (emails and never shows up) drjohn2000, (has a script about female domination, wants to you spray some drug in his mouth, wacko) rocksbenz (nosy, cheap, insulting), laserman (smut talk)
antonio66 (perv, wants to talk about the size of his penis and your labia, very verbally abusive, wants phone sex,)
wdg99 (sexual problems, demands sex when visiting him, if you refuse dumps you off Phx slum hotel wont produce return airline ticket
Realestexc (married, cheap), NaplesCPA (creepy, liar, claims to need kidney)
HandsomeNY (Big time Player, confuses who he is talking too)
Cadillacjack- (married, won't commit), The Company- (pervert, online player),Jetpilot275- (very needy, wants serious LTR right away)Eroupe53211 - (player, won't commit to meeting, online flirt),Attorney325- WEIRD, frugal, small penis, pervert !
bornlucky2007 (likes to talk)
ricknearboston (liar)
withdaddyusayo (not real age)strange in so many ways!
bigdigi (will block you if you dont give him ur #, creepy)
john2008 (liar)all talk
jetman954 (liar)
dylanz (liar)
nightboy (alltalk)
solid123 (married)